Where did your name come from?
Well…this is quite the interesting story. What I thought was my name for the first 28 years of my life, was actually, NOT! I was born in Spain, where by popular demand and since way back in the 13th century, everyone who was Catholic, had a first name of Maria. It was a norm to name María (due to Holy Mary) before any other second name in Spain, as well this was true for males (José). In my family, each and every woman was named Maria, something or other.
My mother, an immigrant from Cuba, who by chance also carried Maria as her middle name, was not too keen on that idea, and wanted to name me after one of her sisters, my Godmother. The name she chose was not something that was recognized in the Catholic church, so they went back and forth for some time. My Mother insisted on naming me after my Aunt, and agreed to use Maria as my first name, with my second name being her first choice. I went about life. I left Spain at the age of 6 month and took up residency in the United States. I received a social security card with both my names (as chosen by my mother). I went to school my entire life, with those names. I got married with both those names. I got divorced with both those names. I held Florida licenses under both those names…
At around the age of 27, I decided that I wanted to become an American Citizen. It was long overdue, but since I had to wait until the age of 18 to decide/apply, life just got busy. I always felt like an American Citizen anyways, so I guess I took that title for granted. On my journey to US citizenship, I had many interviews with the Spanish consulate here in the states. I had to request many documents from Spain and submit a lot of paperwork in order to maintain both my Spanish AND my American Citizenship. Throughout the year long process, we discovered that the middle name I had know my ENTIRE LIFE, was non existent. It was not in my birth certificate. Turns out Spain refused to recognize it, and omitted it altogether. I guess my mother refused to accept that fact, and persisted with her chosen name, thereby obtaining all of my legal paperwork in the states incorrectly.
HA! Was this a shocker. Long story short, I had to go to court, pay lots of money to “legally” change my name (by removing the middle name), before Spain would grant me the dual citizenship papers…
MARIA—by definition is of Latin origin and means “drop of the sea, bitter, or beloved.” Maria is quite a popular name in many European countries. Ironically enough, the middle name that I never actually or legally held, derived from Arabic origin and means “the seeker”. Considering I spent almost a year “seeking” the truth and confirming my identity, I sit here pondering whether or not I should change it back as it clearly defines me and my journey!